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" You can't tell an 18-year-old to keep it down and turn off Britney Spears or whatever it is that they listen to. "
Mary Gaitskill
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" What is faithfulness, anyway? Can you be unfaithful to your own feelings and faithful to someone else? Is it faithful to lie in bed night after night with someone you love but no longer desire while ardently dreaming of someone else? "
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" Between my hatred of mall shopping and my mother's firm ideas about how a girl should dress, my style choices were pretty unenthusiastic: plaid skirts or whatever empire-waisted thingamabob was on sale at Sears. "
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" My first and strongest memories about perfume come from childhood, from my mother, and they are a complex blend of her private and public selves. "
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" I've noticed women my age and a little younger, anywhere from 35 to 50, saying, 'Who would want to bring kids into a world like this?' Or, 'I don't want to spend my life that way. I want to do my artwork.' And they're very unapologetically stating this. "
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" Anne Frank's diary made a very big impression on me at age 12 or so. "
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" There is a sense in which we have - like, I go in to teach a class; I may be somewhat different than I would be talking to you, although it's related because it's public. I'm very different with my roommate or my lover or my cats. But I don't know if that means you're acting, really, if you're being truthful. "
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" I don't think that the Internet creates feelings that aren't there, nor does it provide an outlet. On the contrary, what I have thought about things like computer games - what has disturbed me about them - is that they appear to stimulate feelings of aggression without providing any physical release. "
Mary Gaitskill
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" I think that with the proliferation of writing programs, people tend to forget that you also have to get used to working alone, and you have to be your own support. "
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" I wanted to communicate and connect. I simply didn't seem able to do it. "
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" My parents had met in high school and married right after my father came back from World War II. They honeymooned in Paris and returned to that city when my father, in college on the G.I. Bill, was awarded a Fulbright Scholarship. "
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" I think that's the real reason, sometimes, that people talk about my stories as being scary, because if you compare what goes on in my stories to what goes on in popular movies and popular songs, it's very mild. "
Mary Gaitskill
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Movies
" I wasn't ever anybody who had a political thing against marriage, but I just thought, 'Why would I want to do that?' "
Mary Gaitskill
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" It's scary to me to watch the world around us get less and less physical while in the imaginary world of pop culture, aggressive impulses and fear reactions are floridly, furiously stoked and indulged. "
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" When looking out the window and watching the water becomes a drama, then literally everything is a drama. "
Mary Gaitskill
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" I didn't want to keep forcing myself to grind out book after book. "
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" I think people try to make the most of their time on Earth and also to 'fix' their time on Earth. "
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" I didn't start thinking about what I wanted to do professionally until I was 17. I was a hippie, but I did write. "
Mary Gaitskill
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" A sad person who is so involved with his sadness that he mistakes it for reality will have a hard time seeing himself as anything but sad. For him, the sadness is not a feeling that he experiences - it is him. "
Mary Gaitskill
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" Sometimes I decide I don't want to write because it isn't the thing for me to be doing right then, and I go do something else. "
Mary Gaitskill
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Sometimes
" The hard truth is that there are people who believe they're writers and work hard at it and are sincere about it, but they don't make it. You have to be prepared for that possibility. "
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" I didn't like horses when I was a kid. "
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" Perhaps it should be obvious: Adultery is a social threat that arouses raw anger and fear, which the bellicose then need to discharge rather than merely feel, traditionally on the philandering wife or the female home-wrecker. "
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" One hot summer night in San Francisco, roughly 10 years ago, I was sitting in a crowded Pacific Heights restaurant when Alice Adams walked in with a man. She was about 60 at the time, and she was wearing a skirt that fell an inch or so above her knees and flat heels without stockings. "
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" I think a lot of writing, or a lot of young writers, especially, hold themselves back unnecessarily because they're so upset about the idea that they might be sentimental or so concerned about being criticized that way or even being that way that they just shy away from any strong expression or emotion. "
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" Sometimes I write from the point of view of characters whom I would dislike as people, not as a perverse exercise, but because this cracks the story open and makes me see it in a way I would not see it naturally. "
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" I had really wanted adventure. At the time that I ran away, lots of kids ran away from home. It was something of a social phenomenon. "
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" I don't know if I can say exactly what I seek in books, but one of them would be to deepen and expand my understanding of the world. "
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" People say that if you talk too much about sex, you take away the mystery. I say, if you're somebody who likes to talk, talk all you want - it's not listening. You will never take away the mystery. "
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" Everyone says 'Anna Karenina' is about individual desire going against society, but I actually think the opposite is stronger: the way societal forces limit the expression of the individual. "
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" I remember back in the '90s, I used to feel criticized by women for not having children. Like there must be something wrong with me. "
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