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" I adore Toni Morrison. I think we would all be better writers if we read more of her. "
Tara Westover
Think
Adore
Better
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" Forgiveness isn't just the absence of anger. I think it's also the presence of self-love, when you actually begin to value yourself. "
Tara Westover
Yourself
You
Anger
" Learning in our family was entirely self-directed. "
Tara Westover
Family
Our
Entirely
" We think love is noble, and in some ways, it is. But in some ways, it isn't. Love is just love. And sometimes people do terrible things because of it. "
Tara Westover
Love Is
Think
Sometimes
" My mother was a midwife and a herbalist, so we would go on these long walks, looking for yarrow or rosehips or whatever she needed to make her tinctures. "
Tara Westover
Mother
Go
Her
" Not knowing my birthday had never seemed strange. I knew I'd been born near the end of September, and each year I picked a day, one that didn't fall on a Sunday because it's no fun spending your birthday in church. "
Tara Westover
Fun
Fall
End
" When you abuse someone, you limit their perspective, and you trap them in your view of them or your view of the world. "
Tara Westover
Perspective
You
World
" All my father's stories were about our mountain, our valley, our jagged little patch of Idaho. "
Tara Westover
Mountain
Idaho
Stories
" My parents would say to me, 'You can teach yourself anything better than someone else can teach it to you.' That was the whole ethos of my family. "
Tara Westover
Yourself
Better
Family
" I had access to books, and I could read... but that more foundational, basic historical awareness, I didn't have any of that. "
Tara Westover
Awareness
Read
More
" I didn't know if I would ever reconcile with my family, and I needed to believe that I could forgive, regardless. "
Tara Westover
Family
Believe
Forgive
" My brother once lit his leg on fire. And after, when the fire was finally out, his leg was covered in third-degree burns. And we made the decision - or my parents did - not to take him to the hospital but to treat that at home with a salve my mother made of comfrey and lobelia. "
Tara Westover
Brother
Fire
Home
" I can't have my family in my life because they are abusive, and I don't have control over that. There is an abusive culture in my family, and I have to turn away from it. "
Tara Westover
Family
My Life
Control
" I didn't even have a birth certificate until I was 9 years old, which meant that, according to the state of Idaho and the federal government, I just didn't exist. "
Tara Westover
Years
Just
Government
" BYU was a really positive place for me. "
Tara Westover
Positive
Place
Me
" I think a lot of people have grown up with the idea that they can't learn things themselves. They think they need an institution to provide them with knowledge and teach them how to do things. I couldn't disagree more. "
Tara Westover
Learn
Think
People
" Publishing a book is a very different thing than writing one. "
Tara Westover
Book
Writing
Publishing
" So, I was born and raised the youngest of seven children on this really beautiful mountain in Southern Idaho. But my dad had some radical beliefs. And because of those beliefs, we were isolated. So I was never allowed to go to school or to the doctor. "
Tara Westover
Mountain
Children
Beautiful
" When I was 17, I went to Brigham Young University. That was the first time I had set foot in a classroom. "
Tara Westover
Classroom
Time
University
" I have very non-eccentric hobbies. I like to read, to have dinner with friends, and junk out on TV like everybody else. "
Tara Westover
Friends
Out
TV
" We'd had books in my house growing up, but we had never had anything like lectures. I had never written an essay for my mother. I had never taken an exam. Because I was working a lot as a kid, I just hadn't elected to read that much. "
Tara Westover
House
Mother
Kid
" When you write, you are alone. It can be a bit of a shock later to discover that people have read what you've written! "
Tara Westover
Bit
You
Write
" During my first semester of college, I raised my hand in a class and asked the professor to define a word I didn't know. The word was holocaust, and I had to ask because, until that moment, I had never heard of it. "
Tara Westover
Moment
Know
Class
" I think you can change your belief, but sometimes your behavior takes a lot longer. "
Tara Westover
Change
Belief
You
" I'm no longer religious, but the Bible fascinates me. Hardly anyone reads it anymore, but it's got everything: it's a book of poetry, it's a book of principle, it's a book of stories, and of myths and of epic tales, a book of histories and a book of fictions, of riddles, fables, parables and allegories. "
Tara Westover
Everything
Book
Bible
" I think reading an audiobook is a real skill - for one thing, you have to be able to do impressions and voices, which I cannot do - and it's just not a skill I have. "
Tara Westover
You
Just
Reading
" I had a mental breakdown while doing my Ph.D. at Cambridge, soon after I cut off contact with my parents, and I started seeing the university counsellor, one of the best decisions I ever made. There's something very nourishing in setting aside an hour a week to talk. "
Tara Westover
Parents
Doing
Decisions
" We think about education as a stepping stone into a higher socio-economic class, into a better job. And it does do those things. But I don't think that's what it really is. I experienced it as getting access to different ideas and perspectives and using them to construct my own mind. "
Tara Westover
Education
Ideas
Job
" I spent my summers bottling peaches and my winters rotating supplies. When the World of Men failed, my family would continue on, unaffected. "
Tara Westover
Continue
World
Peaches
" I might just not be a big-city bug. "
Tara Westover
Bug
Just
Might
" They were a very good form for me - the way a short story has to be designed in order to function, to get in everything it needs to - and they tend to be absolutely chock-a-block full of mechanisms and tricks that writers use to do the things they need to and have the effects they need to have. "
Tara Westover
Way
Good
Me