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" I had grown up preparing for the Days of Abomination, watching for the sun to darken, for the moon to drip as if with blood. "
Tara Westover
Moon
Sun
Up
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" I'm no longer religious, but the Bible fascinates me. Hardly anyone reads it anymore, but it's got everything: it's a book of poetry, it's a book of principle, it's a book of stories, and of myths and of epic tales, a book of histories and a book of fictions, of riddles, fables, parables and allegories. "
Tara Westover
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" I think reading an audiobook is a real skill - for one thing, you have to be able to do impressions and voices, which I cannot do - and it's just not a skill I have. "
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" I didn't read much in high school, maybe because I didn't go to high school. Instead, I worked. "
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" I think you can change your belief, but sometimes your behavior takes a lot longer. "
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" I get up when I feel like getting up. That's the deal I've made with myself: I can stay in bed as long as my dog's bladder holds. The other half of that deal is that once the dog is walked, the very next thing I do is write. It's mechanical. It's programming, very nearly brainwashing. "
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" We'd had books in my house growing up, but we had never had anything like lectures. I had never written an essay for my mother. I had never taken an exam. Because I was working a lot as a kid, I just hadn't elected to read that much. "
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Kid
" Things that I now recognise as just part of my personality - willfulness and assertiveness, maybe even a bit of aggressiveness - these are things that I had been raised to think of as masculine features. I always thought there was probably something wrong with me. "
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Think
Thought
Personality
" So, I was born and raised the youngest of seven children on this really beautiful mountain in Southern Idaho. But my dad had some radical beliefs. And because of those beliefs, we were isolated. So I was never allowed to go to school or to the doctor. "
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" I read a handful of memoirs to get a sense of what the genre meant. I needed to learn the fundamentals of the craft. I had never written a word of narrative. What is a tense shift, what is point of view? I didn't know any of it. "
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Craft
Know
" I hate the the word 'disempower,' because it seems kind of cliche, but I do think that we take people's ability to self-teach away by creating this idea that that someone else has to do this for you, that you have to take a course, you have to do it in some formal way. "
Tara Westover
Kind
You
People
" I didn't know if I would ever reconcile with my family, and I needed to believe that I could forgive, regardless. "
Tara Westover
Family
Believe
Forgive
" An education is not so much about making a living as making a person. "
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Education
Person
Much
" There was a lot of beauty in my childhoood. "
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Beauty
Lot
" All my father's stories were about our mountain, our valley, our jagged little patch of Idaho. "
Tara Westover
Mountain
Idaho
Stories
" I had access to books, and I could read... but that more foundational, basic historical awareness, I didn't have any of that. "
Tara Westover
Awareness
Read
More
" I think that when memoir goes wrong, it goes wrong from too much memory, too much detail. It's about clearing all that away and just getting to the story. "
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Too Much
Detail
Memory
" When I was 17, I went to Brigham Young University. That was the first time I had set foot in a classroom. "
Tara Westover
Classroom
Time
University
" I felt like we had stories about family loyalty; I didn't feel like we had stories about what to do when you felt that loyalty to your family was in conflict with loyalty to yourself. "
Tara Westover
Yourself
Conflict
Family
" I spent my summers bottling peaches and my winters rotating supplies. When the World of Men failed, my family would continue on, unaffected. "
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Continue
World
Peaches
" I taught myself algebra and a little grammar, and somehow I scraped a high enough score on the ACT to be admitted to Brigham Young University, even though I had no formal education. "
Tara Westover
Enough
High
Education
" When you write, you are alone. It can be a bit of a shock later to discover that people have read what you've written! "
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Bit
You
Write
" My parents would say to me, 'You can teach yourself anything better than someone else can teach it to you.' That was the whole ethos of my family. "
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Family
" I had a mental breakdown while doing my Ph.D. at Cambridge, soon after I cut off contact with my parents, and I started seeing the university counsellor, one of the best decisions I ever made. There's something very nourishing in setting aside an hour a week to talk. "
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Parents
Doing
Decisions
" Learning in our family was entirely self-directed. "
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Our
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" I think for people who are inside these relationships that are really hard to leave, there is always a compelling reason to stay. It's not that they are wholly bad people. "
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Relationships
Think
People
" My older brother bought textbooks and was able to teach himself enough to go to college. When I was 16, he returned and told me to do the same thing. "
Tara Westover
Enough
Brother
College
" I think a lot of people have grown up with the idea that they can't learn things themselves. They think they need an institution to provide them with knowledge and teach them how to do things. I couldn't disagree more. "
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Learn
Think
People
" Anger can be a good thing. It's a mechanism that your brain uses to get you out of situations that are bad for you. But in terms of leading a peaceful life, it is not very productive. "
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" Anyone who grows up reading the Bible for spiritual reasons, you get accustomed to reading things that are too much for you, too profound for you... Having that belief that you should read them anyway gives you a great advantage over people who only read what they think they can understand. "
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Great
Spiritual
Reading
" I was 17 the first time I set foot in a classroom, but 10 years later, I would graduate from Cambridge with a Ph.D. 'Educated' is the story of how I came by my education. It is also the story of how I lost my family. "
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Time
Lost
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