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" Fiction is a way for writers to preserve their friendships and their romances! "
Sheila Heti
Fiction
Friendships
Preserve
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" I'm happy that I wrote 'How Should a Person Be?' and I wouldn't have written that exact book if we had just done the play. So much of the book is about the anxiety of failure - the failure of the play and the failure of the divorce and the failure of not feeling like a good person. "
Sheila Heti
Good
Book
Anxiety
" Many of the traits in my characters are exaggerations of things I see in myself. But in 'How Should a Person Be?' I wasn't trying to write about myself so much as a combination of myself and these women I was seeing in our culture. "
Sheila Heti
Culture
Myself
Seeing
" Renown is something people have always wanted, but maybe what's modern is that it's considered a virtue, this desire, rather than a vice. I might be wrong about this. "
Sheila Heti
Desire
People
Wrong
" Laurie Simmons began showing her photographs in New York in the late '70s: black-and-white and then candy-colored scenarios with plastic dolls in 1950s-style domestic interiors. "
Sheila Heti
New York
Black-And-White
Late
" Everyone is their own kind of poet - you can't miss it when their words are written down. "
Sheila Heti
You
Words
Own
" The thing to do when you're feeling ambivalent is to wait. "
Sheila Heti
Ambivalent
Wait
You
" I just always try to respond to what I'm most interested in at the moment - that hasn't changed. "
Sheila Heti
Moment
Try
Respond
" Raffi Cavoukian was born in Cairo in 1948 and moved with his Armenian parents to Toronto when he was 10. "
Sheila Heti
Parents
Born
Armenian
" I feel like every single time I've published a book, there's some little light in me that goes out. I've seen the way people can misunderstand or misinterpret things, if not maliciously, then without a lot of sensitivity. "
Sheila Heti
Me
People
Time
" To me, something that's beautiful in terms of a book is something that lives inside the reader both as a discrete and complete thing, but also something that seeps out into their life and thoughts. "
Sheila Heti
Beautiful
Book
Life
" I don't think 'Motherhood' is a map for women. I would never say that it's a template for every woman in response to her biology. "
Sheila Heti
Women
Motherhood
Woman
" Some of my favorite experiences of art are when I am there but my attention has wandered. I think stimulation is overrated, and persistent stimulation is exhausting. You sometimes have to be banal, tedious: make the rhythm go soft and slow, give the mind a rest. "
Sheila Heti
Mind
You
Think
" To add something to the world should be the question, not not adding something to the world. "
Sheila Heti
Should
World
Add
" There's something about a woman's life choices that invites commentary, whether it's been invited or not. "
Sheila Heti
Been
Choices
Life
" I don't wear shoes that are going to give me any pain. I just cannot do that. "
Sheila Heti
Me
Going
Pain
" Our delusions of omniscience play a role in our ideas of not only what we want but also what we want to escape. "
Sheila Heti
Role
Only
Ideas
" Raffi is arguably the world's most famous children's singer. "
Sheila Heti
Singer
World
Most
" I don't really have a schedule; I just get up in the morning. I work at home. I don't feel that my work is a separate thing from living - I get ideas about what I want to write about from the real things that I'm worrying about as I live. "
Sheila Heti
Living
Work
Home
" Tove Jansson was the most successful Finnish illustrator and writer of children's books of her day, and she was the most widely read Finn abroad. She began her life as an artist early - she had her first drawing published at fifteen. "
Sheila Heti
Life
Early
Drawing
" In my experience, women who are taken seriously take themselves seriously. It's not what you wear. "
Sheila Heti
Seriously
You
Women
" Most fiction writers are driven to find their own 'voice,' but I am more interested in the voices of others. "
Sheila Heti
Own
Driven
Find
" Usually, you don't have commitment promises in a friendship. Usually, it just grows. "
Sheila Heti
Promises
Commitment
You
" Stand-up comedians have a very important relationship to Twitter. For them, it's a place to try out material. "
Sheila Heti
Out
Important
Try
" Nonfiction, to me, feels like an argument, whereas a novel is like a series of questions. "
Sheila Heti
Like
Feels
Argument
" I remember very vividly a little plaid dress on which my father sewed all these hanging beads, little horses and stuff. It was my favourite thing ever. I had it when I was four, and I kept it until I was 12, when I gave it to the little neighbour girl. For years, I regretted giving it to her, even though I had no use for it. "
Sheila Heti
Girl
Giving
Remember
" People don't know who I am from my clothes, and they don't need to. "
Sheila Heti
Need
People
I Am
" Writing plays, I've always felt a little like I'm guessing - less sure of what's good and what's not good. I think that's because it's not a complete work of art. "
Sheila Heti
Think
Work
Always
" I'd rather that people could be both entertained and given rest while reading my book than for someone to have to put the book down to take a rest. You can't just be lighting firecrackers all the time. "
Sheila Heti
You
Book
People
" A daughter is more difficult than a rose. "
Sheila Heti
Than
Difficult
More
" My feminism is just part of my being - a part of my understanding of the world. "
Sheila Heti
World
Just
Feminism