Home
Authors
Tags
App
Get QuoteDark Inspirational Quotes App
" A daughter is more difficult than a rose. "
Sheila Heti
Than
Difficult
More
Related Quotes:
" To add something to the world should be the question, not not adding something to the world. "
Sheila Heti
Should
World
Add
" Tove Jansson was the most successful Finnish illustrator and writer of children's books of her day, and she was the most widely read Finn abroad. She began her life as an artist early - she had her first drawing published at fifteen. "
Sheila Heti
Life
Early
Drawing
" I just always try to respond to what I'm most interested in at the moment - that hasn't changed. "
Sheila Heti
Moment
Try
Respond
" In my experience, women who are taken seriously take themselves seriously. It's not what you wear. "
Sheila Heti
Seriously
You
Women
" Women, post-menopause, go back to how they were before they started menstruating, and there's this great freedom in a woman's life when she reaches the end of that reproductive cycle, and that most women come into their own strength, the same strength they had as a girl. "
Sheila Heti
Strength
Life
Freedom
" A line drawn with love can make us as vulnerable as what the line depicts. "
Sheila Heti
Vulnerable
Us
Make
" I feel like every single time I've published a book, there's some little light in me that goes out. I've seen the way people can misunderstand or misinterpret things, if not maliciously, then without a lot of sensitivity. "
Sheila Heti
Me
People
Time
" I'm happy that I wrote 'How Should a Person Be?' and I wouldn't have written that exact book if we had just done the play. So much of the book is about the anxiety of failure - the failure of the play and the failure of the divorce and the failure of not feeling like a good person. "
Sheila Heti
Good
Book
Anxiety
" When you're writing, I think a big part of writing comes out of an attempt to understand yourself. You're dealing with emotions and thoughts that are native to you. So that probably winds up in your characters. "
Sheila Heti
You
Think
Thoughts
" There's something about a woman's life choices that invites commentary, whether it's been invited or not. "
Sheila Heti
Been
Choices
Life
" I didn't wander into motherhood or nonmotherhood unconsciously, recklessly. I gave it due consideration. "
Sheila Heti
Consideration
Gave
Motherhood
" A woman will always be made to feel like a criminal, whatever choice she makes, however hard she tries. Mothers feel like criminals. Non-mothers do, too. "
Sheila Heti
Feel
She
Woman
" We're so sure of what our unlived lives would have been like that we feel guilty for not living them - for not living up to our potential. "
Sheila Heti
Guilty
Potential
Living
" I wished to have the time to put together a world view, but there was never enough time, and also, those who had it seemed to have had it from a very young age; they didn't begin at forty. "
Sheila Heti
Enough
Time
Together
" I've always had individual friends, but I didn't find the people I wanted to learn from as an adult until my mid-twenties. "
Sheila Heti
Find
Always
People
" I find that when I'm in a relationship, I'm just so 'in it,' you couldn't even call it an art; it's such embroilment. With a friendship, you can choose a little bit more how to behave. You can be guided more. "
Sheila Heti
You
Relationship
Find
" As a journalist, you don't tend to interview people with a view to becoming their friend. You can't expect that. It's not professional. "
Sheila Heti
Friend
Professional
You
" Our delusions of omniscience play a role in our ideas of not only what we want but also what we want to escape. "
Sheila Heti
Role
Only
Ideas
" It's so weird how our existence hinges on just absolute crazy chance, but it feels so essential. It's like, 'Nothing would be here if you weren't here,' because you are the centre of your universe. "
Sheila Heti
Weird
Chance
Crazy
" I remember going over proofs of this book - my first book - back in 2001, in a bar in Toronto called the 'Victory Cafe', and thinking sadly to myself, 'This is a very good manuscript but not a very good book.' I don't know what I meant by that, but I was pretty heartbroken and sure it was true. "
Sheila Heti
Book
Victory
Thinking
" I've written about women's lives, and I just want to write about them from being a woman. I don't need feminism on top of that when I'm writing. "
Sheila Heti
Woman
Need
Women
" There's something threatening about a woman who is not occupied with children... What sort of trouble will she make? "
Sheila Heti
Children
Will
Who
" Laurie Simmons began showing her photographs in New York in the late '70s: black-and-white and then candy-colored scenarios with plastic dolls in 1950s-style domestic interiors. "
Sheila Heti
New York
Black-And-White
Late
" Toronto is my home. It's where my family is. I think I feel an obligation to be within subway distance of the people who raised me. "
Sheila Heti
People
Family
Feel
" I don't think 'Motherhood' is a map for women. I would never say that it's a template for every woman in response to her biology. "
Sheila Heti
Women
Motherhood
Woman
" Writing makes everything else in my life okay; it makes everything make sense. "
Sheila Heti
Okay
Writing
Everything
" I just always felt whole when I was writing. I felt this kind of beautiful privacy that I never felt in any other way. I feel like there's this great fullness to being alone, and writing is a really vivid way and a really magical way of being alone. "
Sheila Heti
Great
Being Alone
Beautiful
" Sometimes you can't write a novel for weeks and weeks, but it's good for your self-esteem to work on something else. "
Sheila Heti
Self-Esteem
You
Work
" Trying to live the image of the life which you have in your head... it's really hard not to do that, but I do think maybe it's cheating. "
Sheila Heti
Life
Think
Trying
" Some of my favorite experiences of art are when I am there but my attention has wandered. I think stimulation is overrated, and persistent stimulation is exhausting. You sometimes have to be banal, tedious: make the rhythm go soft and slow, give the mind a rest. "
Sheila Heti
Mind
You
Think