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" Renown is something people have always wanted, but maybe what's modern is that it's considered a virtue, this desire, rather than a vice. I might be wrong about this. "
Sheila Heti
Desire
People
Wrong
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" I have this memory of being 15 years old, sitting with a friend on the steps of a little bookstore on Bloor Street in Toronto and saying, 'I'll never take money for my writing!' I had such idealism about this idea of trading your soul for money. "
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" We're so sure of what our unlived lives would have been like that we feel guilty for not living them - for not living up to our potential. "
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" Writing, for me, when I'm writing in the first-person, is like a form of acting. So as I'm writing, the character or self I'm writing about and my whole self - when I began the book - become entwined. It's soon hard to tell them apart. The voice I'm trying to explore directs my own perceptions and thoughts. "
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" Everyone has to put clothes on in the morning, and it's interesting to see how much people's personal histories come into that decision. "
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" Today, I defined 'sentimental' to myself as a feeling about the idea of a feeling. "
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" Women without children can help mothers, and we can just be all in this together. "
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" The thing to do when you're feeling ambivalent is to wait. "
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" Toronto is my home. It's where my family is. I think I feel an obligation to be within subway distance of the people who raised me. "
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" I wished to have the time to put together a world view, but there was never enough time, and also, those who had it seemed to have had it from a very young age; they didn't begin at forty. "
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" My feminism is just part of my being - a part of my understanding of the world. "
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" I remember where I was when I wrote that story, 'Mermaid in a Jar.' I was at a boyfriend's, and he was the only boy I ever dated who was rich, and his parents had a ski chalet, and I just didn't know how to break up with him, so I decided I would be celibate. "
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" I've always had individual friends, but I didn't find the people I wanted to learn from as an adult until my mid-twenties. "
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" Every choice you make has higher stakes - or that's how it feels. "
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" Stand-up comedians have a very important relationship to Twitter. For them, it's a place to try out material. "
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" Raffi is arguably the world's most famous children's singer. "
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" Women, post-menopause, go back to how they were before they started menstruating, and there's this great freedom in a woman's life when she reaches the end of that reproductive cycle, and that most women come into their own strength, the same strength they had as a girl. "
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" Sometimes you can't write a novel for weeks and weeks, but it's good for your self-esteem to work on something else. "
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" For myself, I feel more natural writing stories or novels than writing plays. I feel more like myself, like I can express myself better, and like I have a greater clarity about what I want to do. "
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" I think making friends you can work with is a skill like any other, developing those particular kinds of intimacies. They're intimacies like any other, but they grow in a definite direction, not just willy-nilly like normal friendships. "
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" Fiction is a way for writers to preserve their friendships and their romances! "
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" The main problem I've always had with fashion media is that women are encouraged to copy other women. "
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" There is a kind of sadness in not wanting the things that give so many other people their life's meaning. There can be sadness at not living out a more universal story - the supposed life cycle. "
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" Laurie Simmons began showing her photographs in New York in the late '70s: black-and-white and then candy-colored scenarios with plastic dolls in 1950s-style domestic interiors. "
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" An artist's love for what they create is what creates love. "
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" I see friends of mine who have kids and continue to do their art. It's deeply impressive. I can't even fit an Amazon return into the day. It's been sitting on my desk for two weeks. "
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" Growing up, I never knew that Raffi turned down celebrity endorsements, TV shows, and specials and refused to make merchandise, but it makes sense given how I think about him: My memories are limited to his voice through the record player and the album covers I stared at. "
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" I think I prefer writing books because the work of art begins and ends with you - it's easier to know if you're doing it right, as opposed to writing a play and then waiting around for somebody else to complete it. "
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" I'm happy that I wrote 'How Should a Person Be?' and I wouldn't have written that exact book if we had just done the play. So much of the book is about the anxiety of failure - the failure of the play and the failure of the divorce and the failure of not feeling like a good person. "
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