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" I always knew I was going to make a record called 'The Foundling.' Since I picked up a guitar, I knew it. "
Mary Gauthier
Knew
Up
Since
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" Once I got my life sorted and started to get healthy, then I was able to focus on writing. "
Mary Gauthier
Healthy
Writing
My Life
" I don't really write for catharsis; I get that kind of work done in therapy. "
Mary Gauthier
Done
Write
Therapy
" I have such a good life. It's something I couldn't have imagined in my wildest dreams. "
Mary Gauthier
Something
Life
Good Life
" I long for real and true connection. It has been the theme of all the songs in my whole life. "
Mary Gauthier
Connection
Been
True
" I've learned our soldiers are so much like everybody else. They're just put into an extreme situation. "
Mary Gauthier
Like
Just
Much
" I think each veteran's soul has something that it needs to say. I know from my own personal traumas, it's very hard to know what that is. But when I'm watching someone else struggle, it's not as confusing for me, 'cause it's not my struggle, so I can help identify that. "
Mary Gauthier
Soul
Help
Know
" If I write for beauty and truth, the songs will find their way to me. Then, it's the songs that speak to the audience, and they can become part of the tribe that is into what I do. "
Mary Gauthier
Audience
Truth
Speak
" I knew I had that Cajun heritage, that Acadian heritage; I just feel it. And my gut says Irish on the other side. Irish and French, that's what I feel. When you're young, it doesn't matter so much, but as you get older, I would suspect part of the ageing process is to wonder about your ancestors - who were they? What were their lives like? "
Mary Gauthier
Feel
Wonder
Process
" I'm a big fan of Lou Reed, and I do a lot of talking through songs. It's more effective with my vocal limitations and also more powerful to slightly sing sometimes. It depends on the emotion, but I'm never going to try to compete with great singers. "
Mary Gauthier
Try
Talking
Sometimes
" I came to music and knowing a little bit about life, and I came to music knowing a lot about business - and that's a real advantage. By the time I came to music, I had purchased real estate, opened restaurants, and been in the business world, so the music business didn't blindside me. "
Mary Gauthier
Time
World
Business
" I guess I find it easier to talk when I have a guitar in front of me. "
Mary Gauthier
Guitar
Find
Me
" It is a form of arrogance to assume that other people are even thinking about you. "
Mary Gauthier
People
Arrogance
You
" I felt my whole life like I didn't have a family, and I needed one. So I had to build one, and you build one with faith, hope, and the healing power of love - or you end up the 'Unabomber.' That's the choice. "
Mary Gauthier
Love
Life
Hope
" I think it's a stereotype that soldiers don't talk, because my experience is that they will talk if they are met with empathy and no judgment. "
Mary Gauthier
Think
Soldiers
Experience
" Melody's like tweezers that go into the infection and pull out the wounded part. You can almost not stay silent in the face of a melody that matches your emotion. You feel seen. "
Mary Gauthier
Silent
Feel
Go
" I learn something every time I go to work with a veteran. Every single time. "
Mary Gauthier
Single
Go
Learn
" It can take me many months to write one of my own songs. "
Mary Gauthier
My Own
Own
Songs
" Soldiers are trained not to be vulnerable, but when they come home, they've got to learn it. "
Mary Gauthier
Soldiers
Got
Come
" I don't know who my dad is. "
Mary Gauthier
Know
Dad
Who
" A song is an emotional lightning bolt - a good one, anyway. "
Mary Gauthier
Song
Emotional
Lightning
" I feel as though I came to music with something to say. It wasn't like that when I was younger. I didn't have the ability to articulate what it was I wanted to say. "
Mary Gauthier
Music
Say
Younger
" Recovery stabilized me; songwriting gave me a purpose. "
Mary Gauthier
Songwriting
Me
Purpose
" I did not know that the wounds of war are often invisible. "
Mary Gauthier
Did
Invisible
Know
" I try not to eat cakes, but sugar screams my name. "
Mary Gauthier
Cakes
Sugar
Name
" When I finally got sober, I moved towards what I might have been if I hadn't been destroying myself when I was young. "
Mary Gauthier
Got
Been
Finally
" I spent my 18th birthday in jail. Charges were dropped as long as I promised never to return to the state of Kansas. My parents took me home to Louisiana. I lasted there a week. Then I ran away. "
Mary Gauthier
Long
Me
Parents
" The belief when your mother gives you away is that there's something deeply wrong. Mothers don't give babies away. There's something wrong with me, something unlovable, something seriously flawed in me. It's a fundamental thing; it's precognitive. You feel it rather than think it. How could you not? "
Mary Gauthier
Mother
You
Think
" In my early years, I couldn't find a community. I couldn't find anybody like me. I felt so isolated. There was nothing but shame and loneliness. "
Mary Gauthier
Me
Early
Loneliness
" I'm grateful to songwriting and recovery to bringing me to a place of peace. "
Mary Gauthier
Me
Peace
Place
" I have got my story. Adoptees rarely get our stories. We only know what we are told. I don't even have my story, really. My mother won't tell me. She won't tell me who my father is. She won't tell me the story of my birth. "
Mary Gauthier
Father
Story
She