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" I once worked as a tour guide in the Costa del Sol of Spain. "
Harlan Coben
Tour
Worked
Guide
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" The preparation for building a series of thrillers based on a single character is kind of like the preparation for becoming a parent: The best part is the idea - wink, wink. "
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" If I'm not writing well, I'm not happy. If I'm not spending enough time with my family, I'm not happy. If I'm not connecting to friends or if I don't work out enough... You get the point. Everything has to be balanced. Nothing should be an extreme. "
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Happy
" I am, after all, a thriller writer. I routinely delve into the darkest chambers of the human heart. I've written about murder, kidnapping, depravity, horror, violence, and disfigurement. "
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I Am
Darkest
Heart
" Children learn much more from how you act than from what you tell them. There are times this worries me - we parents are rarely the role models we want to be. True for life. True for driving. "
Harlan Coben
Driving
Children
Parents
" That's what a good crime novelist - any good novelist - should do with you: play with your perceptions while showing you everything in plain sight. "
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Your
You
" If I don't write, I hate myself. Simple as that. My life is out of balance. "
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Balance
Simple
Hate
" I'm a little bit of a control freak. "
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Control
Little
Freak
" This is the price you pay for having a great father. You get the wonder, the joy, the tender moments - and you get the tears at the end, too. "
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Father
End
Great
" I'm thinking of taking up golf, but the idea of spending time with golfers frightens me. "
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Spending Time
Thinking
Time
" I wrote seven Myron Bolitar novels in a row, and I never want to write a Myron book where he just solves a crime. Every one of them I want to be personal, and I want him to grow and change. The problem with that is, it makes the series limited, you can't write a series where a guy is always going through some kind of crisis. "
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Book
Crime
Change
" I'm 48 years old, not a kid anymore by any definition, but here is a universal truth that every adult at some point will realize: We are all always 17 years old, waiting for our lives to begin. "
Harlan Coben
Always
Realize
Truth
" I love stories. When I'm writing, what I pretend subconsciously is that we're cavemen, we're sitting around the fire, and I'm telling you stories. If I bore you, you're probably going to pick up a big club and hit me over the head. "
Harlan Coben
Writing
You
Me
" 'Caught' is a novel of forgiveness, and the past and the present - who should be and who shouldn't be forgiven. None of my books are ever just about thrills, or it won't work. "
Harlan Coben
Past
Work
Books
" I like to see the difference between good and evil as kind of like the foul line at a baseball game. It's very thin, it's made of something very flimsy like lime, and if you cross it, it really starts to blur where fair becomes foul and foul becomes fair. "
Harlan Coben
Baseball
Good And Evil
Good
" Let me back up a little and tell you why I prefer writing to real life: You can rewrite. A novel, for example, can be cleaned up, altered, trimmed, improved. Life, on the other hand, is one big messy rough draft. "
Harlan Coben
Back
Life
Me
" Writing isn't about the process. It is about creating. The joy comes not from the process but from the creation. "
Harlan Coben
Writing
Process
Joy
" You can't have an up without a down, a right without a left, a back without a front - or a happy without a sad. "
Harlan Coben
Happy
Back
You
" In real life, coincidences happen all the time. In novels, they are leapt upon with fury. "
Harlan Coben
Real
Life
Real Life
" In the end, we know what makes us happy. We also know what makes us unhappy. That's the irony. We know and yet we still mess it up. That's part of the human condition, no, and why we need to work on it. "
Harlan Coben
Work
Know
Happy
" I love to make even villains people you can relate to. When you find out who did it, I think you almost like the person, which is not easy to do. "
Harlan Coben
Find
Think
You
" The book I always say that influenced me, subconsciously, because at the time I didn't know I wanted to be a writer, was William Goldman's 'Marathon Man.' That was the first adult thriller that I loved. I read it when I was 15 or so, when my father gave it to me. "
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Me
Marathon
Father
" I am very lucky that I get to tell stories for a living. I love being able to grab people's attention, to keep them turning the pages, to make them stay awake all night. I want to stir the pulse, yes, but also to stir the heart. I hope 'The Woods' does that. "
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Love
Hope
I Am
" The readers are the ones who let us live our dreams. I try to write books which are really compelling - that you'd take on vacation and rather than going out, you'd read in your hotel room because you had to find out what happened. Hopefully that's what readers are responding to. "
Harlan Coben
Vacation
Hotel
Live
" I'd never had money growing up, and it's never been that important to me, except maybe to take our kids on a nice vacation or something like that. "
Harlan Coben
Vacation
Me
Growing Up
" When I was seventeen, I worked as a counsellor at a co-ed sleep-away camp for eight weeks. I loved it but it could be harrowing - it was far too much responsibility for someone my age. "
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Too Much
Responsibility
Age
" You know, people call mystery novels or thrillers 'puzzles.' I never understood that, because when I buy a puzzle, I already know what it is. It's on the box. And even if I don't, if it's a 5,000-piece puzzle of the 'Mona Lisa', it's not like I put the last piece in and go, 'I had no idea it's the 'Mona Lisa'!' "
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People
Puzzle
Last
" Sometimes even when the book is over I don't know who's good and who's bad. It's really more interesting, I think, to write about gray characters than it is to write about black and white. "
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Good
Think
Know
" More than once, I've wished my real life had a delete key. "
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Life
Delete
Key
" Life may not always fall into neat chapters, and you may not always get the satisfying ending you're looking for, but sometimes a good explanation is all the rewrite you need. "
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You
Life
Good
" I'm not very happy idle. "
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Very
Happy
Idle