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" The preparation for building a series of thrillers based on a single character is kind of like the preparation for becoming a parent: The best part is the idea - wink, wink. "
Harlan Coben
Preparation
Best
Character
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" I am, after all, a thriller writer. I routinely delve into the darkest chambers of the human heart. I've written about murder, kidnapping, depravity, horror, violence, and disfigurement. "
Harlan Coben
I Am
Darkest
Heart
" If I'm not writing well, I'm not happy. If I'm not spending enough time with my family, I'm not happy. If I'm not connecting to friends or if I don't work out enough... You get the point. Everything has to be balanced. Nothing should be an extreme. "
Harlan Coben
Writing
Family
Happy
" Losing my parents was the most crushing thing that ever happened to me. I lost my dad when I was 26, and it changed my life entirely. "
Harlan Coben
Life
Parents
Losing
" Only bad writers think they're good. "
Harlan Coben
Only
Bad
Good
" The state of New Jersey is really two places - terrible cities and wonderful suburbs. I live in the suburbs, the final battleground of the American dream, where people get married and have kids and try to scratch out a happy life for themselves. It's very romantic in that way, but a bit naive. I like to play with that in my work. "
Harlan Coben
Life
Romantic
Work
" In the end, we know what makes us happy. We also know what makes us unhappy. That's the irony. We know and yet we still mess it up. That's part of the human condition, no, and why we need to work on it. "
Harlan Coben
Work
Know
Happy
" Writing isn't about the process. It is about creating. The joy comes not from the process but from the creation. "
Harlan Coben
Writing
Process
Joy
" I'm the Jerry Lewis of crime fiction. "
Harlan Coben
Lewis
Crime Fiction
Fiction
" When I'm writing, what I pretend subconsciously is that we're cavemen, we're sitting around the fire, and I'm telling you stories. If I bore you, you're probably going to pick up a big club and hit me over the head. "
Harlan Coben
Sitting
You
Fire
" No characters in 'Stay Close,' including the leads, are black and white. I want them to be grey. I think that makes for a much more interesting reading experience, something that will stay with you a little bit longer. "
Harlan Coben
Reading
Black And White
Experience
" Writers always say, 'I always knew I wanted to be a writer; when I was a three-month-old foetus a pen formed in my hand and I began to scratch my first story on the inside of my mother's womb.' I started later, in my early twenties. "
Harlan Coben
Pen
Mother
Early
" Hope can be the most wonderful thing in the world or it can crush your heart like an eggshell. "
Harlan Coben
Heart
Hope
World
" Writing is one of the few activities where quantity will inevitably make quality. The more you write, the better you're going to get at it. "
Harlan Coben
Quality
Better
You
" I wrote seven Myron Bolitar novels in a row, and I never want to write a Myron book where he just solves a crime. Every one of them I want to be personal, and I want him to grow and change. The problem with that is, it makes the series limited, you can't write a series where a guy is always going through some kind of crisis. "
Harlan Coben
Book
Crime
Change
" I'm not a big sports fan. "
Harlan Coben
Sports Fan
Sports
Fan
" We're called New Jersey but we're actually the suburbs of New York. "
Harlan Coben
New Jersey
York
New
" I love to make even villains people you can relate to. When you find out who did it, I think you almost like the person, which is not easy to do. "
Harlan Coben
Find
Think
You
" The actual writing time is a lot shorter than the thinking time. I don't do too many notes. I keep it mostly in my head. I usually start writing a new book around January, and it's due October 1. "
Harlan Coben
October
Thinking
Book
" Being a parent is not for the faint of heart. I may joke about knowing fear, but the fact is, the first time I ever knew real fear was the day Charlotte, my first child, was born. Suddenly there is someone in the world you care about more than anything. "
Harlan Coben
Fear
Child
World
" Tragedy is a hell of a teacher. It's much too strict, but it's a hell of a teacher. "
Harlan Coben
Strict
Tragedy
Much
" I've never chased the dollar, I've always chased the reader's heart. I love having more readers. The more people who read it, the more thrilled I am. "
Harlan Coben
People
Love
I Am
" Children learn much more from how you act than from what you tell them. There are times this worries me - we parents are rarely the role models we want to be. True for life. True for driving. "
Harlan Coben
Driving
Children
Parents
" A writer without a reader doesn't exist. "
Harlan Coben
Exist
Writer
Without
" I like to go out and write. So I'll often go to a Starbucks or a local coffee bar, and I'll sit there and I'll write. I can write pretty much anywhere. "
Harlan Coben
Like
Coffee
Go
" I'm not a fan of self-help books - how can something be 'self-help' if the book itself is purportedly helping you? "
Harlan Coben
Something
Books
Book
" I'd never had money growing up, and it's never been that important to me, except maybe to take our kids on a nice vacation or something like that. "
Harlan Coben
Vacation
Me
Growing Up
" The muse is not an angelic voice that sits on your shoulder and sings sweetly. The muse is the most annoying whine. The muse isn't hard to find, just hard to like - she follows you everywhere, tapping you on the shoulder, demanding that you stop doing whatever else you might be doing and pay attention to her. "
Harlan Coben
You
She
Doing
" I'm thinking of taking up golf, but the idea of spending time with golfers frightens me. "
Harlan Coben
Spending Time
Thinking
Time
" I live in the suburbs, the final battleground of the American dream, where people get married and have kids and try to scratch out a happy life for themselves. "
Harlan Coben
Dream
Live
Life
" Frankly I'm fairly boring or fairly busy. Between writing and family, I have little time for anything else. "
Harlan Coben
Boring
Busy
Writing