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" Kids don't shuffle along in unison on the road to maturity. They slouch toward adulthood at an uneven, highly individual pace. "
Robin Marantz Henig
Adulthood
Road
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" Some people, no matter how robust their stock portfolios or how healthy their children, are always mentally preparing for doom. They are just born worriers, their brains forever anticipating the dropping of some dreaded other shoe. "
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" Regret is a bitter emotion, so painful that the urge to avoid it often drives decision-making strategies. "
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" The chance you passed up or missed could have had any number of different outcomes, and it's easy to fantasize about how much better every one of those outcomes would have been. "
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