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" There's something threatening about a woman who is not occupied with children... What sort of trouble will she make? "
Sheila Heti
Children
Will
Who
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" I don't really have a schedule; I just get up in the morning. I work at home. I don't feel that my work is a separate thing from living - I get ideas about what I want to write about from the real things that I'm worrying about as I live. "
Sheila Heti
Living
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Home
" An artist's love for what they create is what creates love. "
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" The thing I worry about is, what happens when your talent flees? Because you see that with writers sometimes: they start writing these awful books. And there's something sort of horrifying about it. "
Sheila Heti
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" Most fiction writers are driven to find their own 'voice,' but I am more interested in the voices of others. "
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" When I was younger, I think that I felt like I could only live one way, and I had to figure out which of those one ways it was going to be. I have no anxiety about making the wrong decision. "
Sheila Heti
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" Sometimes you can't write a novel for weeks and weeks, but it's good for your self-esteem to work on something else. "
Sheila Heti
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" I think I prefer writing books because the work of art begins and ends with you - it's easier to know if you're doing it right, as opposed to writing a play and then waiting around for somebody else to complete it. "
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" Only in our failures are we absolutely alone. Only in the pursuit of failure can a person really be free. Losers may be the avant garde of the modern age. "
Sheila Heti
Only
Failure
Free
" I wanted to talk to a lot of women about their experiences along the path to motherhood - or along the path to not being a mother. "
Sheila Heti
Women
Motherhood
Mother
" Today, I defined 'sentimental' to myself as a feeling about the idea of a feeling. "
Sheila Heti
Today
Sentimental
Feeling
" I just always felt whole when I was writing. I felt this kind of beautiful privacy that I never felt in any other way. I feel like there's this great fullness to being alone, and writing is a really vivid way and a really magical way of being alone. "
Sheila Heti
Great
Being Alone
Beautiful
" I don't think about the reader when I'm writing, but I do when I'm editing, of course. For instance, I self-consciously didn't want to do anything to increase the divide between mothers and nonmothers - I think that divide is so horrible and destructive and unnecessary. "
Sheila Heti
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Writing
Want
" I think making friends you can work with is a skill like any other, developing those particular kinds of intimacies. They're intimacies like any other, but they grow in a definite direction, not just willy-nilly like normal friendships. "
Sheila Heti
Direction
You
Work
" There is a kind of sadness in not wanting the things that give so many other people their life's meaning. There can be sadness at not living out a more universal story - the supposed life cycle. "
Sheila Heti
Story
Life
People
" Everyone has to put clothes on in the morning, and it's interesting to see how much people's personal histories come into that decision. "
Sheila Heti
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Decision
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" There's so much to learn in writing and in life, and in any particular era in one's life, it seems like a few concerns have to be dealt with at once or else something really bad could happen. Writing seems like the place to deal with those concerns. "
Sheila Heti
Bad
Writing
Place
" To me, something that's beautiful in terms of a book is something that lives inside the reader both as a discrete and complete thing, but also something that seeps out into their life and thoughts. "
Sheila Heti
Beautiful
Book
Life
" Writing plays, I've always felt a little like I'm guessing - less sure of what's good and what's not good. I think that's because it's not a complete work of art. "
Sheila Heti
Think
Work
Always
" My feminism is just part of my being - a part of my understanding of the world. "
Sheila Heti
World
Just
Feminism
" Everyone's always telling themselves stories about their lives, writers or not. "
Sheila Heti
Stories
Telling
Always
" Raffi is arguably the world's most famous children's singer. "
Sheila Heti
Singer
World
Most
" The thing to do when you're feeling ambivalent is to wait. "
Sheila Heti
Ambivalent
Wait
You
" As a journalist, you don't tend to interview people with a view to becoming their friend. You can't expect that. It's not professional. "
Sheila Heti
Friend
Professional
You
" I just always try to respond to what I'm most interested in at the moment - that hasn't changed. "
Sheila Heti
Moment
Try
Respond
" I don't know what that line is between fiction and non-fiction that other people have in their minds, but to me, when I'm writing, it's just like whatever the next sentence should be is the next sentence. It's not this artificial division. "
Sheila Heti
Writing
Know
Line
" Stand-up comedians have a very important relationship to Twitter. For them, it's a place to try out material. "
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Out
Important
Try
" Usually, you don't have commitment promises in a friendship. Usually, it just grows. "
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Promises
Commitment
You
" I believe there's a platonic ideal for every book that is written, like there's the perfect version of the book somewhere in the ether, and my job is to find what that book is through my editing. "
Sheila Heti
Perfect
Job
Believe
" Fiction is a way for writers to preserve their friendships and their romances! "
Sheila Heti
Fiction
Friendships
Preserve
" I remember going over proofs of this book - my first book - back in 2001, in a bar in Toronto called the 'Victory Cafe', and thinking sadly to myself, 'This is a very good manuscript but not a very good book.' I don't know what I meant by that, but I was pretty heartbroken and sure it was true. "
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Book
Victory
Thinking