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" I've written about women's lives, and I just want to write about them from being a woman. I don't need feminism on top of that when I'm writing. "
Sheila Heti
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" I remember going over proofs of this book - my first book - back in 2001, in a bar in Toronto called the 'Victory Cafe', and thinking sadly to myself, 'This is a very good manuscript but not a very good book.' I don't know what I meant by that, but I was pretty heartbroken and sure it was true. "
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" It's so weird how our existence hinges on just absolute crazy chance, but it feels so essential. It's like, 'Nothing would be here if you weren't here,' because you are the centre of your universe. "
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" Writing, for me, when I'm writing in the first-person, is like a form of acting. So as I'm writing, the character or self I'm writing about and my whole self - when I began the book - become entwined. It's soon hard to tell them apart. The voice I'm trying to explore directs my own perceptions and thoughts. "
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" Most fiction writers are driven to find their own 'voice,' but I am more interested in the voices of others. "
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" Everyone has to put clothes on in the morning, and it's interesting to see how much people's personal histories come into that decision. "
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" Writing makes everything else in my life okay; it makes everything make sense. "
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" I have this memory of being 15 years old, sitting with a friend on the steps of a little bookstore on Bloor Street in Toronto and saying, 'I'll never take money for my writing!' I had such idealism about this idea of trading your soul for money. "
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