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" My parents would say to me, 'You can teach yourself anything better than someone else can teach it to you.' That was the whole ethos of my family. "
Tara Westover
Yourself
Better
Family
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" I had to be - I was in school for probably three or four years before I began taking courses in history and political science, and I just started to realize how big the world was. I mean, when I arrived in college, I didn't know anything. "
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" Things that I now recognise as just part of my personality - willfulness and assertiveness, maybe even a bit of aggressiveness - these are things that I had been raised to think of as masculine features. I always thought there was probably something wrong with me. "
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" I had grown up preparing for the Days of Abomination, watching for the sun to darken, for the moon to drip as if with blood. "
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" I didn't even have a birth certificate until I was 9 years old, which meant that, according to the state of Idaho and the federal government, I just didn't exist. "
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" I might just not be a big-city bug. "
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" I taught myself algebra and a little grammar, and somehow I scraped a high enough score on the ACT to be admitted to Brigham Young University, even though I had no formal education. "
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" Because I never attended elementary schools of any kind, I missed most of the books that were popular with other kids my age. There was an exception, however, which was 'Harry Potter.' My grandmother gave me the first book when I was about 13, and I read it, then read all the rest. "
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" I have a theory that all abuse, no matter what kind of abuse it is, is foremost an assault on the mind. "
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" My mother was a midwife and a herbalist, so we would go on these long walks, looking for yarrow or rosehips or whatever she needed to make her tinctures. "
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Go
Her
" I don't really feel like I belong anywhere. "
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Like
" I used to roof hay barns for my father. It's dangerous work. Writing is much better. "
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Writing
Work
" The things about my childhood that I really loved the most, writing about those things was hard because I knew they would never happen again. "
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" I think you can change your belief, but sometimes your behavior takes a lot longer. "
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" I'm no longer religious, but the Bible fascinates me. Hardly anyone reads it anymore, but it's got everything: it's a book of poetry, it's a book of principle, it's a book of stories, and of myths and of epic tales, a book of histories and a book of fictions, of riddles, fables, parables and allegories. "
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" When you write, you are alone. It can be a bit of a shock later to discover that people have read what you've written! "
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Write
" My family always spent the warm months bottling fruit for storage, which Dad said we'd need in the Days of Abomination. "
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Always
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" I read a handful of memoirs to get a sense of what the genre meant. I needed to learn the fundamentals of the craft. I had never written a word of narrative. What is a tense shift, what is point of view? I didn't know any of it. "
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" I think for people who are inside these relationships that are really hard to leave, there is always a compelling reason to stay. It's not that they are wholly bad people. "
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" Psychologically, when you hear something a number of times, you start to believe it. "
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" During my first semester of college, I raised my hand in a class and asked the professor to define a word I didn't know. The word was holocaust, and I had to ask because, until that moment, I had never heard of it. "
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" I spent my summers bottling peaches and my winters rotating supplies. When the World of Men failed, my family would continue on, unaffected. "
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" It's very difficult to continue to believe in yourself and that you're a good person when the people who know you best don't. "
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" In families like mine, there is no crime worse than telling the truth. "
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" I think if you're going to abuse someone, you really have to convince them of two things. First, you have to normalise what you're doing, convince them that it's not that bad. And the second thing is to convince them that they deserve it in some way. "
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" I think it's a belief that you can learn something. That's something that I really value from the upbringing I got. "
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