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" Public intellectuals are often put in the position of having their words, no matter how off-the-cuff, treated as doctrine. "
Roxane Gay
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Writing
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" We cannot sway extremists with rational thought or with our ideas of right and wrong. "
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Sand
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" Most open letters undoubtedly come from a good place, rising out of genuine outrage or concern or care. There is, admittedly, also a smugness to most open letters: a sense that we, as the writers of such letters, know better than those to whom the letters are addressed. We will impart our opinions to you, with or without your consent. "
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Rule
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Parents
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Reality
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