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" Family caregiving has become a predictable crisis. Americans are living longer and longer but dying slower and slower. "
Gail Sheehy
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" I know I'm never going to probably see the Taj Mahal or, you know, climb Mt. Everest, but I can still maybe influence peoples' way of thinking by a story that I do, by something I learn about the world. "
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" I dare to do things - that's how I survive. "
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" Married at 23, a mother at 24, and blindsided by divorce at 28, I found myself struggling, like many young women I meet today, to strike a balance between my personal life and my career. "
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" We see it in the body, that if you just give the body enough rest and comfort, it has remarkable self-healing capacities. Well, so does the spirit. "
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" Sex and older women used to be considered an oxymoron, rarely mentioned in the same breath. "
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" No one can control the aging process or the trajectory of illness. "
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" I keep returning to the central question facing over-50 women as we move into our Second Adulthood. What are our goals for this stage in our lives? "
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" It is a paradox that as we reach out prime, we also see there is a place where it finishes. "
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" Be willing to shed parts of your previous life. For example, in our 20s, we wear a mask; we pretend we know more than we do. We must be willing, as we get older, to shed cocktail party phoniness and admit, 'I am who I am.' "
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" You have a new role: family caregiver. It's a role nobody applies for. You don't expect it. You won't be prepared. You probably won't even identify yourself as a caregiver. "
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" The secret of a leader lies in the tests he has faced over the whole course of his life and the habit of action he develops in meeting those tests. "
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" I'm a liberal, but I think there's so much that the private sector can do and does do. "
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" I do think taking the 20s to take the most chances you can is important, because you're not going to hurt anyone else during that time. And if you do have a partner, you need a couple years to rehearse that relationship. "
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" Adapting to our Second Adulthood is not all about the money. It requires thinking about how to find a new locus of identity or how to adjust to a spouse who stops working and who may loll, enjoying coffee and reading the paper online while you're still commuting. "
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" Like everyone else in the first weeks after the tragedy of 9/11, I was looking frantically for some way to help. "
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" I've had the experience of having a book praised but then it doesn't sell. Or not praised but then it sells. "
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" Changes are not only possible and predictable, but to deny them is to be an accomplice to one's own unnecessary vegetation. "
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" I found that female pathfinders generally integrate characteristics commonly associated with being women - like the capacity to be intimate - with 'male' ones like ambition and courage. "
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" Jill Clayburgh's life so closely paralleled mine, I feel as though a part of me lived a little through her and died a little with her. "
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" If every day is an awakening, you will never grow old. You will just keep growing. "
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" There is no more defiant denial of one man's ability to possess one woman exclusively than the prostitute who refuses to redeemed. "
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Man
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" We have to move from the unbridled pursuit of self-gain at the expense of others to recovering appreciation for what we gain by caring and sharing with one another. "
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" I actually interviewed other people about myself, and that alerted me to the fact that I had to really investigate my memories. "
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" In the case of my husband, we found that facing a life-threatening illness prodded us to make a dramatic change in our lives. "
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" It seems like, to me, somewhere between 30 and 35 is a really, really good time to turn your eggs into babies. "
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" Career-driven millennials are strategic about working obsessively while they are single and earning enough money to afford advanced education. Most are patient enough to wait until 30 or later to develop their dream. "
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" In my memoir, I admit that I've been as fearful of success as of failure. In fact, when 'Passages' was published, I so dreaded bad reviews that I ran away to Italy with a girlfriend and our children to hide out. "
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" Being a pathfinder is to be willing to risk failure and still go on. "
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" Back in 1968, when I was 30, my entire life blew up. I had a life plan, and it collapsed for no rational reason. "
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" Would that there were an award for people who come to understand the concept of enough. Good enough. Successful enough. Thin enough. Rich enough. Socially responsible enough. When you have self-respect, you have enough. "
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