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" Putting my words piece online was an important part of my plan to help women learn how to love themselves and have a better life. "
Tracy McMillan
Words
Better
Love
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" A sure-fire way to know you're crazy is if more than one person has told you you'd be great on a reality show - and you agree with them. "
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" Rather than diminishing the idea of 'truly needing' a relationship - and trying to deny it, shame it, or talk ourselves out of it - why not just celebrate it? It's exactly what the world needs. "
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" Relationships are like the world's most intense yoga! It's a daily practice. "
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" You can't trick The Universe - it's like Santa Claus that way. "
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" Because I was a television writer for many years, I write very conversationally. I put things straight, and with a lot of humor. "
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" For every year past the age of 27, you need to take another step toward commitment somewhere in your life. Instead of freelancing, you get a staff job. Instead of renting, you buy. Fine, instead of couch-surfing, you rent. "
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" The thing is, relationships never work out... until they do. You learn a lot from relationships that don't work out. "
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" Being in a relationship is a hard, painful slog at least once a week, maybe more often - especially if you have a lot of defenses to let down, or if your parents didn't know how to love you very well. "
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" All of us, consciously or unconsciously, set out to have the best possible love life. Valentine's Day simply shines a light on the degree to which that didn't - or hasn't yet - materialized. "
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" People who find that they have a lot of drama in their relationships need to allow themselves to get 'bored'. At first, it will feel excruciating, and they may find themselves confronting a very real fear underneath all that drama: being truly close and therefore vulnerable to another human being. "
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" Being all about me is not a good thing - I don't care what 1978 tried to say - because as long as you mostly think about yourself, you're not going to be a wonderful person. You're just not. "
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Me
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" I think of masculine and feminine energy like two sides to a battery. There's a plus side and a minus side, and in order to make something turn on, you need to have opposites touching. It's the same in relationships. "
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" Here's the thing: you're not really ready for love until you have enough self-respect that if you met your exact self, but in a guy, you would totally, completely, absolutely want to be with him. "
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" When relationships don't work out, it doesn't mean you're a bad person, it just means you weren't meant to be together. "
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" I talk to women for a living. It's pretty much what I do with my day. "
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" Caring - about people, about things, about life - is an act of maturity. "
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" If you're not married, chances are you think a lot about you. "
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" One of the beautiful things about men is that they're very in the moment. That's why they don't want to have an argument about what happened six months ago. "
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" If I had an office job, I'd probably be doing the exact same thing I'm doing on television: hanging out by the water cooler and talking to co-workers about their relationships. "
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" Somehow, married or single, we'd rather anesthetize ourselves with love substitutes than go for the real thing, because let's face it: The real thing is pretty scary. "
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" I'm a blunt person, not mean-spirited. I come from a place of love, but I'm interested in being real. "
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" Without really trying to, I've become a sort of jailhouse lawyer of relationships - someone who's had to do so much work on her own case that I can now help you with yours. "
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" Work is a different type of pursuit than relationships. You can't take the skills that you know that have gotten you into that great school or into that great job and apply them to your relationships. "
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" There is no such thing as 'getting' a guy, house and kids. There is only surrendering to them. "
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" The deal is: most men just want to marry someone who is nice to them. "
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" I'm the straight-talking woman in your life who is going to be really honest with you, but come from a place of love. I'm not talking down to you; I do this from my heart. "
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