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" Until white people understand that racism is embedded in everything, including our consciousness and socialisation, then we cannot go forward. "
Robin DiAngelo
White
Forward
People
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" As part of my work, I teach, lead and participate in affinity groups, facilitate workshops, and mentor other whites on recognizing and interrupting racism in our lives. "
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" White people are very wily when it comes to race. We will do everything that we can to get out from under the idea of race. "
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" Most white people cannot answer the question, 'What does it mean to be white?' with any depth or complexity. "
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" One of the things I try to work with white people on is letting go of our criteria about how people of color give us feedback. We have to build our stamina to just be humble and bear witness to the pain we've caused. "
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" The most effective adaptation of racism over time is the idea that racism is conscious bias held by mean people. "
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" Although racism does, of course, occur in individual acts, these acts are part of a larger system that we all participate in. The focus on individual incidences prevents the analysis that is necessary in order to challenge this larger system. "
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" This is one of the most effective adaptations of racism over time - that we can think of racism as only something that individuals either are or are not 'doing.' "
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" Whites have not had to build the cognitive or affective skills or develop the stamina that would allow for constructive engagement across racial divides. "
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" While having friends of color is better than not having them, it doesn't change the overall system or prevent racism from surfacing in our relationships. The societal default is white superiority, and we are fed a steady diet of it 24/7. To not actively seek to interrupt racism is to internalize and accept it. "
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" In the U.S., while individual whites might be against racism, they still benefit from their group's control. Yes, an individual person of color can sit at the tables of power, but the overwhelming majority of decision-makers will be white. Yes, white people can have problems and face barriers, but systematic racism won't be one of them. "
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" Like a nontechnical user trying to understand a technical problem, our racial illiteracy limits our ability to have meaningful conversations about race. "
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Problem
" The antidote to white fragility is ongoing and lifelong and includes sustained engagement, humility, and education. "
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White
Education
Humility
" For white people, their identities rest on the idea of racism as about good or bad people, about moral or immoral singular acts, and if we're good, moral people, we can't be racist - we don't engage in those acts. "
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Good
Rest
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" People of color understand what it means to be white more than I ever will. "
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Will
People
Understand
" For a lot of white people, just suggesting that being white has meaning will trigger a deep, defensive response. And that defensiveness serves to maintain both our comfort and our positions in a racially inequitable society from which we benefit. "
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Society
Comfort
People
" White consciousness is deeply anti-black, and that's for progressives and conservatives. "
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Consciousness
White
Deeply
" This is what I have learned: Any white person living in the United States will develop opinions about race simply by swimming in the water of our culture. But mainstream sources - schools, textbooks, media - don't provide us with the multiple perspectives we need. "
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Swimming
Water
Culture
" I have found that the only way to give feedback without triggering white fragility is not to give it at all. "
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Feedback
Only
" One cannot understand how racism functions in the U.S. today if one ignores group power relations. "
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Group
Power
Racism
" There's a lot of ways that white women undermine women of color, and black women in particular. "
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" White fragility is a state in which even a minimum amount of racial stress becomes intolerable, triggering a range of defensive moves. "
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" I do atypical work for a white person, which is that I lead primarily white audiences in discussions on race every day, in workshops all over the country. That has allowed me to observe very predictable patterns. And one of those patterns is this inability to tolerate any kind of challenge to our racial reality. "
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" I think our everyday coded language around 'good neighborhoods' and 'bad neighborhoods' is what allows for tremendous violence to happen... When you label a neighborhood 'bad' and avoid it, then you don't know and don't see what goes on there. And there's no human face to interrupt that narrative. "
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" A fundamental but very challenging part of my work is moving white people from an individual understanding of racism - i.e. only some people are racist and those people are bad - to a structural understanding. "
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" One of the most important misunderstandings for white people to get over to move forward is this idea that racism is a good-bad proposition - that if we're good we can't be part of it, that being uncomfortable means you're a terrible person. We have to let go of that and understand it as a system we all live in. "
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You
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" I have spent years studying what it means to be white in a society that proclaims race meaningless, yet is deeply divided by race. "
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Race
Society
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" I grew up poor and white. While my class oppression has been relatively visible to me, my race privilege has not. In my efforts to uncover how race has shaped my life, I have gained deeper insight by placing race in the center of my analysis and asking how each of my other group locations have socialized me to collude with racism. "
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" Whites often respond defensively when linked to other whites as a group or 'accused' of collectively benefiting from racism, because as individuals, each white person is 'different' from any other white person and expects to be seen as such. "
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Racism
" Whiteness is dynamic, relational, and operating at all times and on myriad levels. These processes and practices include basic rights, values, beliefs, perspectives and experiences purported to be commonly shared by all but which are actually only consistently afforded to white people. "
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