Home
Authors
Tags
App
Get QuoteDark Inspirational Quotes App
" This is something caregivers have to understand: You have to ask for help. You have to realize that you deserve to ask for help. Because you need to keep on working on your own life. "
Gail Sheehy
Own
Need
Life
Related Quotes:
" Being a pathfinder is to be willing to risk failure and still go on. "
Gail Sheehy
Being
Risk
Still
" To be tested is good. The challenged life may be the best therapist. "
Gail Sheehy
Good
Therapist
Tested
" Most women have learned a great deal about how to set goals for our First Adulthood and how to roll with the punches when we hit a rough passage. But we're less prepared for our Second Adulthood as we approach life after retirement, where there are no fixed entrances or exits, and lots of sand into which it is easy to bury our heads. "
Gail Sheehy
Women
Life
Goals
" Changes are not only possible and predictable, but to deny them is to be an accomplice to one's own unnecessary vegetation. "
Gail Sheehy
Changes
Own
Only
" Be willing to shed parts of your previous life. For example, in our 20s, we wear a mask; we pretend we know more than we do. We must be willing, as we get older, to shed cocktail party phoniness and admit, 'I am who I am.' "
Gail Sheehy
Admit
Life
Mask
" I do think women can have it all - but not all women. If you take daring steps and are smart about it, you can probably have it all. But you might have to wait a while. "
Gail Sheehy
Wait
You
Women
" I dare to do things - that's how I survive. "
Gail Sheehy
Survive
Dare
Things
" The secret of a leader lies in the tests he has faced over the whole course of his life and the habit of action he develops in meeting those tests. "
Gail Sheehy
Meeting
Action
Habit
" I found that female pathfinders generally integrate characteristics commonly associated with being women - like the capacity to be intimate - with 'male' ones like ambition and courage. "
Gail Sheehy
Courage
Capacity
Ambition
" If you're the person living closest to the parent who's going to need help, and you take on the whole role of primary caregiver, you can be pretty sure your sibling who lives farthest away is going to call you and say, 'You don't know what you're doing.' Because they're not on the spot, and they probably feel guilty. "
Gail Sheehy
You
Doing
Help
" We see it in the body, that if you just give the body enough rest and comfort, it has remarkable self-healing capacities. Well, so does the spirit. "
Gail Sheehy
Comfort
Spirit
Rest
" Would that there were an award for people who come to understand the concept of enough. Good enough. Successful enough. Thin enough. Rich enough. Socially responsible enough. When you have self-respect, you have enough. "
Gail Sheehy
Award
Good
People
" Character is what was yesterday and will be tomorrow. "
Gail Sheehy
Yesterday
Character
Tomorrow
" All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter into another! "
Gail Sheehy
Changes
Behind
Most
" It was my very good fortune to find a mentor, Clay Felker, who started my career at the 'New York Magazine' as a freelance writer when I had to quit my job at the 'Herald Tribune' to stay home with my young daughter. "
Gail Sheehy
Job
Good
Daughter
" In 2009, I served as AARP's Ambassador of Caregiving. With a producer and cameraman, I traveled the country for months, interviewing hundreds of caregivers. "
Gail Sheehy
Ambassador
Country
Producer
" People in grief need someone to walk with them without judging them. "
Gail Sheehy
Grief
Judging
People
" I found the happiest woman in America is between 50 and 55, is happily married, has made significant progress in her career, and lives in a community where she can easily exercise outside. But the most important single thing was she had her last child before she was 35. "
Gail Sheehy
Progress
Woman
She
" No one can control the aging process or the trajectory of illness. "
Gail Sheehy
Control
Aging
Illness
" We really only have two choices. Play it safe, or take a chance. For me, pulling back because of fear has always made me feel worse. "
Gail Sheehy
Play
Me
Chance
" I did not give my daughter the kind of childhood anybody would want. The vision of the divided loyalty between a mother and father who don't live together and don't share in decisions is a great depravation for children. "
Gail Sheehy
Mother
Children
Daughter
" Like everyone else in the first weeks after the tragedy of 9/11, I was looking frantically for some way to help. "
Gail Sheehy
Way
Looking
Everyone
" The feminist spirit still lives! It shows most boldly among younger women from the millennial generation. "
Gail Sheehy
Still
Generation
Women
" Stress overload makes us stupid. Solid research proves it. When we get overstressed, it creates a nasty chemical soup in our brains that makes it hard to pull out of the anxious depressive spiral. "
Gail Sheehy
Soup
Stress
Stupid
" I'm a liberal, but I think there's so much that the private sector can do and does do. "
Gail Sheehy
Private
Think
I Think
" It seems like, to me, somewhere between 30 and 35 is a really, really good time to turn your eggs into babies. "
Gail Sheehy
Me
Turn
Time
" I've had the experience of having a book praised but then it doesn't sell. Or not praised but then it sells. "
Gail Sheehy
Having
Then
Book
" Back in 1968, when I was 30, my entire life blew up. I had a life plan, and it collapsed for no rational reason. "
Gail Sheehy
Up
Back
Life
" Eventually, all mentor-disciple relationships are meant to pull apart, usually sometime in the mid-30s. Those who hang on, eventually the mentor drops the disciple, and that's no fun. "
Gail Sheehy
Hang
Mentor
Relationships
" No sooner do we think we have assembled a comfortable life than we find a piece of ourselves that has no place to fit in. "
Gail Sheehy
Comfortable
Life
Find