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" Presents are symbolic. When you give them in your personal life, they should show that you are paying attention to the person to whom you're giving them. "
Judith Martin
Life
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" My children did not go through a stage of being rude to their parents. I'm sorry if that sounds incredible. "
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" Many people mistakenly think a new technology cancels out an old one. "
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" Email is very informal, a memo. But I find that not signing off or not having a salutation bothers me. "
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" I make a distinction between manners and etiquette - manners as the principles, which are eternal and universal, etiquette as the particular rules which are arbitrary and different in different times, different situations, different cultures. "
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" Freedom without rules doesn't work. And communities do not work unless they are regulated by etiquette. "
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" Etiquette does not render you defenseless. If it did, even I wouldn't subscribe to it. But rudeness in retaliation for rudeness just doubles the amount of rudeness in the world. "
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" We are born charming, fresh and spontaneous and must be civilized before we are fit to participate in society. "
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" Most people who work at home find they do not have the benefit of receptionists who serve as personal guards. "
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" When people start hurling insults at you, you know their minds are closed and there's no point in debating. You disengage yourself as quickly as possible from the situation. "
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" Etiquette is all human social behavior. If you're a hermit on a mountain, you don't have to worry about etiquette; if somebody comes up the mountain, then you've got a problem. It matters because we want to live in reasonably harmonious communities. "
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" Indeed, Miss Manners has come to believe that the basic political division in this country is not between liberals and conservatives but between those who believe that they should have a say in the love lives of strangers and those who do not. "
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" I try to behave myself, and I succeed. "
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